“He Should Be Better By Now” is a system-level decoder for parents, educators, and advocates supporting students after concussion or traumatic brain injury (TBI).
After medical clearance, many students continue to struggle—not because they aren’t trying, but because recovery is nonlinear and neurological capacity has changed. Schools often misinterpret this phase, withdrawing accommodations, increasing demands, or reframing symptoms as behavior or motivation issues.
This guide translates what is actually happening when support fades.
It focuses on:
executive function decline after TBI
cognitive fatigue and delayed crashes
masking and invisible disability
why accommodations disappear over time
gender differences in post-TBI support
the impact of TBI on students who were already neurodivergent
Rather than offering medical advice, this resource provides language, framing, and system translation so parents can advocate for sustained access without escalating conflict.
What You’ll Learn
Why “medical clearance” does not equal academic readiness
How schools misread post-TBI fatigue and regulation collapse
Why students often struggle later, not immediately
How effort masking hides disability—especially for girls
Why pre-existing ADHD, autism, or learning differences change the recovery trajectory
How to reframe conversations around access, not recovery timelines
Who This Is For
Parents of students recovering from concussion or TBI
Families navigating school after “return to learn” has ended
Educators supporting students with invisible disabilities
Advocates working with acquired or layered neurodivergence
This guide is especially relevant when:
accommodations are being removed
behavior narratives replace neurological ones
grades don’t reflect effort cost
expectations rise faster than capacity
What This Is (and Is Not)
This is:
a decoder of school language and assumptions
a bridge between medical and educational realities
a practical advocacy tool
This is not:
medical advice
a rehabilitation plan
a legal manual
Format
Digital PDF
Text-forward and accessible
Printable and phone-friendly
