Who This Is For
This kit is for you if:
Your child is approaching 18 and guardianship has been presented as “the default”
Guardianship was already put in place and now feels too restrictive
You want to understand supported decision-making and less-restrictive alternatives
You were told “this is just how it works” and something in you knew that wasn’t true
You want scripts, language, and templates, not just theory
You care deeply about your child’s dignity, voice, and long-term autonomy
This is not about forcing independence before someone is ready.
It’s about preserving rights while building support.
What This Kit Helps You Do
The ND Guardianship Exit Kit™ helps families:
Understand what guardianship actually removes — and what it doesn’t need to
Evaluate whether guardianship is appropriate right now
Explore alternatives like:
Supported decision-making
Powers of attorney
Limited or modified guardianship
Prepare language for conversations with:
Attorneys
Courts
Schools and transition teams
Medical providers
Begin the process of reversing or modifying guardianship when it no longer fits
All in plain language, designed for overwhelmed parents and ND families.
What’s Included
1. Clear, Grounded Foundation (No Legal Jargon)
What guardianship is — and what it legally does
What rights are transferred (and why this matters long-term)
Common myths families are told
Why “capacity” is often misunderstood for ND young adults
When guardianship may be appropriate and when it’s not
2. Decision-Support Framework
A structured way to assess:
Where your child needs support vs. autonomy
What decisions they can already make with scaffolding
Which alternatives fit your child, not a system default
This helps you move from panic → clarity.
3. Scripts & Language
Copy-and-paste scripts for:
Attorneys
“We are not seeking full guardianship. We want to explore less-restrictive alternatives.”
Courts
Language that centers dignity, support, and rights
Schools / Transition Teams
Clarifying post-18 decision-making without erasing student voice
Medical Providers
Access without overreach
Family Members
Explaining your choice calmly, without defending or justifying
Short versions. Longer versions. Low-energy versions.
4. Templates & Practical Tools
Guardianship alternatives comparison worksheet
Rights-preservation checklist
Questions to bring to a lawyer before signing anything
Talking points for transition meetings
Documentation prompts to support modification or reversal
Designed so you don’t have to invent language under pressure.
What This Kit Is Not
Not legal advice
Not a substitute for an attorney
Not a judgment about families who chose guardianship
It is a decision-support and language system so you can walk into legal conversations informed, grounded, and prepared.
Why This Exists
Too many families are told:
“Guardianship is the safest option.”
Without being told:
What rights are lost
What alternatives exist
How hard it can be to reverse
How often ND young adults are underestimated
The ND Guardianship Exit Kit™ exists to put choice back into a moment that is often handled with fear.

