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Parent Regulation Architecture Assessment

$19.00

This isn't about how you're coping. It's about what the system is costing you.

You've been told to practice self-care. Take a bath. Breathe. Find five minutes for yourself.

You've tried. But the system your neurodivergent child navigates IEPs, evaluations, accommodations that exist on paper and vanish in practice is structurally designed to consume your regulation capacity. Every meeting where you're outnumbered. Every accommodation you have to re-explain. Every time the school documents agreement where you felt no real choice. That's not stress. That's compliance infrastructure, and it's expensive.

This isn't about how you're coping. It's about what the system is costing you.

You've been told to practice self-care. Take a bath. Breathe. Find five minutes for yourself.

You've tried. But the system your neurodivergent child navigates IEPs, evaluations, accommodations that exist on paper and vanish in practice is structurally designed to consume your regulation capacity. Every meeting where you're outnumbered. Every accommodation you have to re-explain. Every time the school documents agreement where you felt no real choice. That's not stress. That's compliance infrastructure, and it's expensive.

This assessment measures where your capacity is actually going across three layers:

Institutional Load : How much the system demands of you before you even get to your own needs. Hours spent navigating schools, consent theater in IEP meetings, carrying your child's entire institutional memory because nobody else will. We quantify what everyone else pretends doesn't exist.

Regulation Under Caregiving : What's left of your nervous system after the caregiving infrastructure takes its share. Can you co-regulate your child from a grounded place, or are you absorbing their distress because your own tank is empty? This isn't a stress quiz. It's a capacity audit.

Support Architecture: What structures actually exist around you. Not "do people care about you" — but can anyone step in without you pre-loading them? Is any part of your week structurally protected? Does anyone in your life understand both neurodivergence AND your experience as the parent navigating it?

Your results reveal the pattern: high institutional load depletes regulation capacity. Depleted regulation makes advocacy harder. Harder advocacy increases institutional friction. The system is self-reinforcing.

The answer isn't more resilience. It's different architecture.

Includes your institutional load reduction protocol, regulation recovery sequence, support architecture blueprint, and scripts for boundary-setting with schools and providers.

16 questions. 10 minutes. Research-backed. Built for the parent the system is designed to exhaust.