The Consent Interruption Decision Tree | Slow Decisions & Protect Consent in Schools, Healthcare & Disability Systems

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The Consent Interruption Decision Tree™ is a step-by-step guide for neurodivergent adults and parents to slow rushed decisions, refuse coerced consent, and protect agency in schools, healthcare, ABA, hospitals, and Medicaid systems.

The Consent Interruption Decision Tree™ is a step-by-step guide for neurodivergent adults and parents to slow rushed decisions, refuse coerced consent, and protect agency in schools, healthcare, ABA, hospitals, and Medicaid systems.

THE CONSENT INTERRUPTION DECISION TREE™

What to do when a system asks for consent and something feels wrong

Most consent failures don’t happen because people agree.

They happen because:

  • the room moves too fast

  • authority sounds confident

  • your body freezes

  • and silence gets recorded as yes

The Consent Interruption Decision Tree exists to stop that moment before consent collapses into compliance.

What This Is

The Consent Interruption Decision Tree is a step-by-step decision-support system designed to help you:

  • slow rushed decisions

  • interrupt coerced consent

  • identify when to pause, refuse, or request writing

  • choose your next move without escalating conflict

This tool does not tell you what to decide.

It helps you decide whether a decision should be happening at all.

Who This Is For

  • Neurodivergent adults navigating systems

  • Parents and ND mothers advocating for their children

  • Families overwhelmed in meetings or appointments

  • Advocates, EF coaches, and consultants

  • Anyone who freezes, fawns, or complies under pressure

If you’ve ever thought:

“I don’t know what to do next but I know this isn’t right,”
this tool is for you.

How It Works

The Decision Tree walks you through:

  1. Body Check
    Identifies when nervous system overwhelm means consent is not possible.

  2. System Slow-Down
    Gives you immediate language to pause decisions.

  3. Clarity Check
    Determines whether you actually understand what’s being asked.

  4. System Identification
    Routes you to the correct pathway:

    • Schools / IEPs

    • Clinics

    • ABA / Therapy

    • Hospitals / Psychiatric care

    • Medicaid / Disability services

  5. Conditional Yes vs No Decision Points
    Helps you determine when a pause, refusal, or conditional yes is appropriate.

  6. Documentation Prompt
    Ensures the moment is captured in writing.

  7. Aftercare Check
    Identifies when nervous system repair is needed after the interaction.

How This Is Different

Most decision tools assume:

  • you are calm

  • you have time

  • you can think linearly

This tool assumes:

  • power is uneven

  • time is being used as pressure

  • your body may already be protecting you

It is designed for real-world use under stress.

Format

  • Digital PDF (printable)

  • Clear flowchart structure

  • Plain-language decision prompts

  • Designed for real-time use in meetings